We had free parking

Yes, just talk to your corresponding office that you are booked with to forward them to your unit.

There is a laundry room in every floor, the map on the back of your front door will show you where on your floor it is. You need $2 worth of quarters for the machines. Reception can only give out a limited number of quarters a day so best to save any quarters you get when out shopping, etc. I believe the pool hours are are 8am-9pm but the first hour (8am-9am) is adults only

Approx 3 miles

Yes

It depends, my bosses air bnb units at the Banyon come with a parking pass in the unit but most others do not. There is paid parking available you can either call the hotel and inquire or purchase parking in person when you arrive.

It is free is free if you are staying there

Every unit has microwave, stove and refrigerator. Dishes depending on the owner of the unit but they usually have dishes to.